The secret to a sensational sex life is to keep it fresh. And the best way to do that is by surprising your partner with an unexpected play in the bedroom.


A body massage, the ultimate trick
If you are a male then this is probably the easiest way to turn your woman on. Have her strip down as much as possible (preferably to her knickers, at least) and lie face down on the bed. Being mindful of your weight, straddle her hips and start by running your fingers through her hair. Women love this, so take your time. Massage her scalp and then move on to her neck and shoulders. If you really want to win her over, try a slow, sensual foot massage.

Feed each other
Strawberries, whipped cream, chocolate pudding -- all of these things can be sensuously fed to your partner. If you are a male, run a honey-covered finger across her lower lip and watch how quickly she tries to take it into her mouth. You might be surprised to find how well it works.

Read an erotic story together
Erotic books do for your partner the spark which shall bring the fire up. One anthology of erotic short stories is all you need, but be selective. Skim the stories before you buy; you don’t want to accidentally purchase something too over the top.

Watch a movie together
select a movie your partner likes to watch. The movie with some intimacy or erotic scenes will help your partner get charged.  Find a movie your partner is more comfortable with and it will do the magic, even before you could realise.